Friday, June 20, 2008

Assaulted on the 6

The day of my last final, May 15, I was attacked on the 6 train. I was entering the subway at 22nd and Park heading downtown. I hooked around the stair railing to head down the stairs on the right. Everyone knows how to walk up and down stairs, keep to the right. On this particular morning I was about to descend the stairs when a “rule breaker” was walking up the stairs on the left. She went to hook around the corner to head out of the stair well on the left; doing the reverse of what I was doing. We came to a stand still. I was waiting for her to pass and she refused to go around me. So I looked up and said, “Excuse me.” To which she said, “ex-cuse me!” I just starred at her for a second, and then I said, “there are two sides to the stairs you know!” To which she said, “you’re in my WAY!” So, since I was already stressed out and heading to my last final I walked around her, angry to be backing down, but also knowing this was so stupid and childish. However, because I was so pissed, I said, “Fat.” as I passed her. Then I felt bad. Saying fat to someone is stooping pretty low, some would say, uncalled for. Although I didn’t say that she was fat, I did say fat in her general direction. As I was contemplating my behavior she hooked around the left of the stair well and then reached down over the side and ripped a huge chunk of my hair out. For a second I thought I wasn’t going to get away, or that she was going to reach down and give me a right hook to the face. But she just ripped the chunk of my hair out and kept walking. I got on the 6 and headed to my final, pulling out the remaining chunks of hair for another 10 minutes or so. Some time has passed now and I am now over it, but I have gone through a range of emotions as I took a good look at myself, asking myself a plethora of questions: “what does this say about me?” “what does this say about my temper?” “What does this say about my patience?” “What kind of person am I?” However, I have come to the conclusion that sticks and stones can break my bones, but ripping someone’s hair out is always assault.

2 comments:

. said...

Inna....inna city.....inna city presha.

B. Green said...

The concrete world is starting to get ya.
The city is alive, the city is expanding.
Living in the city can be demanding.

Next time call "her" a lovely girl and maybe she will put flowers in your hair rather than tearing patches of hair out.

Or just reach out and give her a hug, sounds like you both could have used one.

You cross the street, you don't know why you did.
You walk back across the street.